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Tomorrow, Thursday, the Have Your Say programme hosted by POWA will speak to one of the issues that will be covered during this year’s School Call In For Parents … Again! Specifically, we will be looking at the topic titled “Can We Talk? The Subject is Sex,” and we invite parents, guardians and, indeed, all those mandated to care for children and young people to tune in and listen. Now, we are quite aware that this is one of those subjects that grown-ups – no matter how liberal and enlightened they consider themselves to be – just seem to find themselves uncomfortable with discussing. And this is a pity, because, in the absence of a conversation between concerned parent and child, our young people will find themselves in heavy sessions of misinformation, disinformation, fantasy and plain old fool-off with not only their peers, but with predatory and exploitative adults, as well. Many parents would like to think that their little chuk-a-luks are too young for that talk about the-birds-and-the-bees. After all, he’s just five years old, fresh out of pres-school, and he wouldn’t understand. Or, they fool themselves into believing that their 12-year-old daughter, shiny and new in her secondary-school uniform, shouldn’t hear about such things just in case she is tempted to try. Well, we have news – bad news – for you, Mom and Dad. Little Junior could probably tell you a story or two about where babies really come from, and your First Former’s best friend might be the one distributing the condoms at recess. Surely it’s not as bad as that, you protest. We agree. It’s worse. Talk with any secondary or junior-secondary school teacher or counselor, and your hair might just curl to learn what they know on the subject. But, worse than the truth of our children and teenagers engaging in usually unprotected sex, as couples and in groups, with each other is the bitter fact that they’re getting it on with grown men, too, with the occasional big woman thrown in for good measure. |